Everyone seems to be managing… except you.
You look around and see new moms with their babies—smiling, glowing, soaking it all in.
And you wonder why it doesn’t feel that way for you.
Because this isn’t what you expected.
You love your baby… but you might feel anxious, overwhelmed, or unlike yourself after having your baby.
Maybe your mind won’t shut off.
Maybe you feel on edge, exhausted, or constantly worried something could go wrong.
Or maybe you’re a new mom—exhausted, overwhelmed, and not feeling like yourself…and you’re having a hard time focusing on anything but how overwhelmed you feel.
Having a baby is not always “love at first sight.”
It’s been nine long months.
You’ve planned for it. You’ve read all the books. You’ve consulted with friends and family.
You’re prepared for it. You’ve watched the movies and read the blog posts about how exciting this time is. You’ve waited for it.
And now, your baby is here.
But those images of new moms crying tears of joy and gushing with love feel far away. Instead, you might feel confused and conflicted:
“I love my baby, but sometimes when she cries in the middle of the night I feel a sense of dread.”
“I thought I’d feel more connected… why does this feel so hard?”
“If I’m honest, sometimes I feel resentful that I don’t have time for anything but the baby.”
“My baby is amazing, but I can’t stop worrying that something bad will happen.”
There are all sorts of expectations about how you’re supposed to feel.
So when someone says, “Isn’t this the most amazing miracle?”… you might want to scream, “NO, it isn’t!”
Trust me… you are NOT the only one.
So many women struggle after having a baby—emotionally, mentally, and physically.
As many as 50–75% of new mothers experience some form of “baby blues,” and some women go on to develop postpartum depression or anxiety.
But it’s not always talked about honestly.
Social media often shows a polished version of motherhood.
But there are real women out there struggling—and there’s relief in knowing you’re not alone in this.
You might be feeling:
• constantly on edge or unable to relax
• overwhelmed by the mental load of everything
• emotionally drained and running on empty
• disconnected from yourself or not like “you”
• caught between love for your baby and anxiety or exhaustion
I work with women navigating postpartum anxiety, overwhelm, and emotional challenges after becoming a mother.
Therapy can help—and the sooner you start…
…the sooner you’ll feel better.
Supportive friends and family are a blessing, but having an outside perspective can really change the way you feel about things.
Therapy provides a space to speak freely and without judgment.
This is where you can say the thoughts out loud that feel scary—and start to understand what’s actually going on beneath them.
Therapy can help you:
– reduce anxiety and constant worry
– feel more in control of your thoughts and emotions
– navigate the emotional and physical changes of motherhood
– reconnect with yourself in the middle of it all
Therapy can help you learn skills to minimize overwhelming feelings, decrease symptoms of anxiety and depression, and express your needs in a way that they can be met. (And if getting out feels impossible, check out my online therapy page.)
Therapy can help you work through the stress, isolation, and emotional weight that can come with this stage of life.
Remember that vision you had of motherhood?
It may not feel the way you expected right now—and that can be confusing and hard to sit with.
You might be struggling with thoughts and feelings you didn’t anticipate. That doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you.
With the right support, things can start to feel more manageable. You can feel more grounded, more connected, and more like yourself again.
Your plate is already full, and reaching out might feel like one more thing—but you don’t have to keep doing this on your own.
Reach out to schedule a consultation: (516) 253-1918.
